4 Reasons You May Have Made Your Girlfriend Leave You

It's a general rule that when your girlfriend decides to leave you, you've done something wrong. Chances are, you've done a lot of somethings wrong. Fellas, we're pretty accurately labeled as the dumber of the two genders, and when dealing with creatures as confusing as women, it's not surprising that we make blunders that make them leave. HOWEVER, we CAN deal with them if we know how.

That's why I'm writing this for you, as a friendly man-to-man resource for a few of the things we frequently do that tick our ladies off and make them want to leave. Sure there are women nice enough to painstakingly list off our every faults for us, but not every guy is so lucky as to have one. Not to worry, bro...I will help you through this madness.

1) First main thing that girls really despise when men do is when they don't pay attention to them. This really drives a girl nutso, because it can feel like they require our every waking moment to be devoted to them and only them, or else we don't love them. Of course this assumption is completely false, but girls seem to need us to pay constant attention to them.

Of course, this can be a bit contrary sometimes. You don't want to pay TOO MUCH attention to her, because that's considered "weird" or "scary." Achieving a balance is very difficult, as you have to pay enough attention to satisfy her without hanging on her every word and freaking her out. Since every girl's different, best idea is to simply listen to figure out exactly what she needs.

2) There's this term women use...it's called when a guy is being "emotionally supportive" of his woman. This term means absolutely nothing as far as I can figure...basically it's just a way of measuring how well a guy knows his girl. It's kinda related to List Item #1, but a bit expanded. Women are looking for when a guy pays enough attention to a girl so that he knows her almost as well as she knows herself.

There are a privileged few in the world of men who come by this talent naturally. I hate those scumbags, as I'm not one of them. If you're like me, it requires a lot of attention and devotion to really pick up on all the little clues they give you as to exactly what they want. Really, if you can perfect item number 1, you can probably do okay with this one.

3) Oh my God, do NOT let a woman catch you cheating on her. And by that I don't mean do it carefully, I mean don't do it. Women may take slightly less offense to other women cheating on their men, but a man who cheats is sin itself and must be brutally destroyed by any means necessary. Most of us guys know it's "bad" to cheat on a woman, but the majority of us may not know exactly what "cheating" is as a woman sees it.

You don't have to have sex with another woman to be "cheating." A lot of the time all it takes is a single look of appreciation at another woman's finer physical "assets" for your girlfriend to take offense. Even fantasies about pornstars or celebrities can be a no-no, it just depends on the girlfriend. Best and safest bet is to forget that other girls exist, and think like they're just other guys who look different.

4) And of course, there's always going to be trouble at home. What I mean is, if you live with your girlfriend...there'll be issues about how you divide up housework and household responsibilities. Rarely does this in itself end a relationship, but refusing to take out the trash can be a breaking point. Do yourself a favor...do what she tells you. It's just easier that way.

So that's the main list of stupid things we guys do. You may be wondering about why this could really help you if you're already broken up, and that's a fair question. Fact is, not everyone who is broken up, STAYS broken up, and if you manage to get a second chance with her you do NOT want to make the same mistakes again. Also, addressing these potential problems can help you out a lot with any other women you end up dating in your life.

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