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Do's and Don'ts for Men on Dating Sites

Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals sites.

Being a man and also being the owner of a dating site myself
I have to tell all my fellow men that you are chasing all the
women away. Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how
we behave because most of us all behave the same way on
dating sites. Here is a list of DO's and DON'TS to help keep
the women at these sites and to help you get some responses.

1) DON'T copy and paste 25 exactly same emails and send them off.
Women see right through this and it get's you no-where. Ever wonder
why you don't get responses? That's the first reason. DO send
individual emails and put some thought into contacting women on
these dating sites. REMEMBER: women get 100 emails a day from
all sorts of guys. If your email has no heart then you just go
over-looked.

2) DO spell check your email, women are so turned off by a guy
that cannot spell it shows you are either stupid or just lazy. The
same thing goes for grammar. Take some time to get it right guys
and you will get a response.

3) DON'T choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless
you are on an adult dating site). Remember, women usually like
men with some class and Roger_69sU shows that you just want
a one night stand. Try something more clever.

4) DON'T contact single women if you are married. It is a waste
of their time and is an insult. DO read their profile and see if they
are interested in married men.

5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T lie. Enough said.

6) DO not send women pictures of your "privates". They will
ask if they want to see that. DO send them a nice picture
that shows your sense of humor or style.

7) DON'T just send an email after you see their picture. DO
read their profile first.

8) DON'T harass women that are not interested. This ruins the
site for everyone and could very well get you banned from the
dating site forever. Many sites now have reporting features for
this very reason. DO treat all others on the site as though you
were talking in person to them. You would harass them to their
face would you?

This is just a small list of some of the incredibly stupid
things guys are doing on Internet dating and singles sites.
Now of course there are some great guys out there that are
honestly looking for a nice date or relationship so any women
reading this, just bear with us, we men are slowing catching
up and figuring it out.

Article written by Mark Jones.