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Look at me: I gotta case of body language, Freddie Mercury / Queen Can you attract another person with your body language? According to the studies of human communication 55% of information is conveyed with gestures and mimic, 38% is passed with the aid of frequency of speech and intonations, while only 7% is passed through the meaning of words. Who taught us to speak like this? Was Darwin right about our ancestors? Maybe, but this is not a matter of this article. The matter is: how exactly can one person attract another with body language, is it just like Freddie sang it some years ago? Look in the eyes. When we are getting into a formal conversation on a business meeting we may feel like we are looking right into the eyes of our opponent. In reality, our eyes are scanning the face of a person along a narrow cyclic path: left eye - space between the eyes - right eye. When we are talking with a friend, our eyes do the same, but the scanning path gets wider: line below eye level of the person - nose - mouth, and up (overall the path makes an overturned triangle with a base drown below person eye-line). During a light, flirting conversation the area of eye scan gets even bigger. And if you feel any sexual interest to this person, the center of the scanned area will shift toward person lips. Same will be true, of course, in case if someone you are talking to seem like is gazing right into your mouth: it is very likely that this person already is kissing your lips in her (his) imagination. So you better know that, the rest will be up to you. Monkey me, baby. Can body language reveal any difference between light flirt and strong sexual attraction? Well, if the feelings are really strong, you will tend to mimic the object of your passion. This comes from some indiscernible depths of our instincts, although, on the surface the message seem like saying that we have a lot in common with that person. Now, when you know it, you can conscientiously use this, however, be moderate: total copycatting can be read as a mockery (especially if you indiscreetly reproducing all his or her features, good and bad). When you are following your protagonist always observe at least one minute pause before making your turn. Move your eyebrows. Did you know that if you lift your eyebrows when you meet a person for the first time it will be a sign of friendliness toward that person. If the feeling is mutual: you will get the same up-down motion of eyebrows in response. It looks funny from the side, especially if one of you has bushy eyebrows, it will look as if one cannot see the other clearly through them. But this is one of the oldest ways of winning sympathy (who knows how many thousands of generations of cave men used this trick before actual language was invented)? Now, when you know, you can use it! Where the eyesight rests. By watching (even secretly) somebodys hands and legs (postures and motion), we are revealing our interest toward the person. So, if you would notice that someone is watching with interest your hands, legs, feet, be assured, there is some interest. If you, after noticing such attention, will approach that person, this will tell that you have an interest too. At such moment it may be a good time to use spoken language: you will be heard! You have got a Wink! If you ever dated online, you might know what this means. Same is in a real word: wink is a universal sign of attraction. Want to attract this girl (boy): wink to her (him). Getting a wink back? Good sign, maybe you can start speaking now.
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