Four Mental Steps to Provide A Balanced Life for Your Kids

You are just like all the rest of great parents - you want your kid's lives to be balanced. Did you know that one of life's laws involves a mental sandwich? Part work, part play, part serious thinking, and part restful enjoyment are the four parts. Because of the breadth of those four pieces, all that your kids' lives include are in there. You will be able to instantly see what is out of balance.

Although having a balanced life is splendid for kids, it also extends to all they do in their lives. Back in the 1980s, I worked for a man who started a business in his basement. Over the course of his working life, he built that business up to the point where he eventually sold the business for over $220 million dollars. After all his business success, he ended up selling it because none of his five children had been taught to run it after he retired. As a matter of fact, not one of his kids had been taught to work as he did. The suffered the misfortune of having too much bounty simply handed out to them.

Having money is great. Can you have too much? It's a trick question. Having too much isn't the issue. In one sense the problem with that family was too much money, but the real issue was a balancing of life issues. The family was all about money and not much of anything else. What if, with all that money, he would have made them get jobs, earn things, work hard? A more balanced life for each of them would have resulted.

Another example of an unbalanced life follows: I used to work with a successful lawyer who, when he hit 50, became depressed. He had three children who were all off to college, and he told me he really didn't know them because the entire time they were growing up, he had been in meetings. He would work Monday through Friday until 9:00 at night. He would often work on Saturdays and Sundays. There's nothing wrong with being a success in your career, but he lacked the ability of balancing life and work. His career was all that mattered. He would never agree with that, and his actions spoke louder than his words.

Whatever your children like to do, whether it's swimming, soccer or science projects, encourage them to work really hard at it, but then, teach them to walk away from it. Show them how taking a break from it will give them a bigger perspective on it.

When you teach your kids the four parts of the mental sandwich of life, they can then use those laws to govern balance in their work for school, in the careers they'll end up in, and in their relationships - ultimately all the things that make their lives healthy, filled with joy, success and satisfaction. The key to a balanced life is using all four parts of the mental sandwich.

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Len Stauffenger's parents taught him life's simple wisdom. As a divorced dad, he wanted to share that simple wisdom with his girls. "Getting Over It: Wisdom for Divorced Parents", his book, is the solution. Len is a Reiki Master, an author, a Success Coach and an Attorney. www.wisdomfordivorcedparents.com

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