How to Get Your Ex On The Phone

It can seem really difficult to get your ex to just talk to you, much less get him back. Fortunately, there are relatively easy ways to do both. Easiest is just getting him to return your calls, and once that is done you have won half the battle! Here is how you can go about getting him on the phone.

Before I show you the best technique for getting him to call you back, I am going to point out some of the more common mistakes people make with these phone calls. Even if you have already made one or more of these errors, it is still ok...but here are some of the things you should try to avoid doing when leaving that magic message:

--Desperately begging him to come back to you is never an effective way to do it. This relies on getting your ex to pity you, and one thing you don't want right now is that kind of weakened position. Even in the 1-in-1000 chance that it gets you together, a relationship founded on pity will NOT hold out.

--Claiming that it is an absolute Emergency and implying that calling you back is a life and death matter. Being so dramatic is not going to make things go any better for you. He knows it is not an emergency, and so do you. It can be hard to deal with this time, but making it out to be an emergency just hurts your chances of getting him back.

--Playing the part of the romance movie guy who leaves a big, long, emotional message that melts the heart of his angry sweetie and fixes all the problems they had throughout the entire movie. Life simply does not work that way, I am sorry to say. It takes a lot more fixing than that, and in the real world your ex usually skips half the message and deletes it. It is another form of drama that is just too overwhelming and will not help you at all.

So now that you know how to NOT make him call you back, here is the secret to getting his attention and all but forcing him to...self-interest and curiosity. These two powerful motivational tools have been used to get people to do unbelievable things that they never would have if they were asked any other way.

Here is an example for you to think about:

-Hey, its me. I just wanted to say thanks...what you did for me really turned my life around. I would appreciate it if you would give me a call, I would love to be able to thank you in person.-

This kind of line makes your ex wonder what it was he did that helped you so much, and makes the call seem less like an attempt to convince him to get back together. It feels relatively harmless, and yet has a lot of intrigue to it...he almost won't be able to help himself.

But stop right NOW! Once he calls back, it is vital that you have a plan for exactly what you are going to say...going into this without an overall strategy could ruin your chances entirely, so do not risk it!

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