How to Wipe the Slate Clean With Your Ex

What do you do when your ex has just broken up with you? You know this isnt where you want to be, but how do you fix it? Is it even possible to fix it? To reassure you, yes...you can fix all this and get your life back on track, but you will need a plan and the right attitude.

First things first: how did you get here? Its important to remember that mistakes WERE made, and if your ex was the one who ended the relationship that means its up to you to make them right. Do not expect to fix all your troubles with one apology...its not quite that easy, although if you follow the right process it doesnt have to be much harder.

So here are a few tips for how to wipe the slate clean and make your ex warm up to the idea of giving you a second chance. If you follow all these ideas, you will quickly find yourself in a much better situation in which your ex is more likely to take you back, or at least hear you out so that you can convince him to take you back.

1) Cut off contact, for about a month. So soon after a breakup, there is bound to be a lot of emotion flaring up and flying around, and things can be said that will never stop haunting you. Giving your ex some space gives him time to cool off and time to clear his head...gives him a chance to miss you.

2) Avoid classic desperation mistakes that typically occur after a breakup. Drunken Dialing and Text Message Terrorism are the prime examples, and it isnt hard to understand why you dont want to do these things. You shouldnt be interested in giving your ex the impression that you are lonely to the point of drinking or desperate to the point of sending a barrage of emails or text messages. Cool off a bit, and let your partner miss you.

3) Make good use of your time apart, develop a plan! Not knowing what you are doing before you do it can lead to as many problems as Drunk Dialing or Text Message Terrorism, if not more! If you need to, seek help in finding a proven system that works for getting your ex back, and follow it to a tee. Organization is your friend.

Dont forget that this isnt a time to sit around and be sorry for yourself...this time away from each other is not just to keep you from messing thing up worse or to make him miss you, its also to give you room to think and devise a plan of action. With the right process carried out the right way, anything can become much more simple, even this.

This isnt one of those things that just works itself out for the best on its own. You have to guide it to its conclusion, and you need a good plan to do that...preferably one that has been proven time and again to work. There is a lot that can all but ruin the odds of getting him back, but nothing stops that from happening like a tested process.

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